Sansaku: Comparisons Don’t Apply
8/21/21
I tended to choose work that occurred in communal settings. Ones that provided shelter and food, all kinds of belonging, basic needs. This level of care sounds regressive, a return to the womb, but not according to Maslow and his famous hierarchy of needs. Once our safety and security needs are met, we progress to social and emotional concerns, which can lead to love and self-esteem. Being human.
At the top of his developmental pyramid are the meta-needs. The need to learn and grow in truth and knowledge, beauty and aesthetics, inner development and transcendence. The sense of self expands.
Describing actualization reads like the index to positive psychology. Every culture has examples of those who have gone on beyond. The higher levels. All kinds of terms. Zen and Tao. The unfolding self.
Neither the workplace or culture are currently designed with these needs in mind. Listen to the news. Catastrophic change and terror. A return to the base, safety and security. Covid’s hard on communal.
Maslow was aware self-actualization depended on basic needs being met. We stand on many shoulders. The foundation for the higher is deep belonging and connection, self-esteem and love.
I spend hours with a teacup, pen and journal. Taking time. Crows on the line. I open the door, step outside. And one of the attributes I most covet, serenity, the sound of the garden. General and specific. Gratitude and praise, the debt of love. Living in the moment.
It might be small, the top of a peak, but the view is large. The feeling expansive. It’s not a matter of getting more or having less. Lower-level measures. Comparisons don’t apply.